Consulting

 

 Benefits of Consulting

  • We dive deeper into coercive control/domestic abuse as well as other relational, systems, and institutional abuse awareness.

  • We will recognize issues and problems, and direct and plan solutions.

  • You will gain sovereignty of yourself

  • You will gain a sense of self agency again 

  • You will develop Resilience

  • You will develop Faith (Trust in Yourself)

  • You will receive support and external resources

  • You will receive assistance with legal discovery including evidence gathering, mapping patterns, and documentation in your family court case

  • You will receive all the benefits of therapeutic and/or trauma coaching with the combined sessions in addition to coercive control/domestic abuse as well as other relational, systems, and institutional abuse awareness and recovery methodologies.

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Many women and girls are not aware they are in coercively controlling relationships; how dangerous these abusers are, how to stop it, or how to heal from it. This in turn creates complex trauma and ACE’s and affects their lives in negative ways and perpetuates the problems in their lives and future generations.

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RESOURCES in the US

National Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org 800-799-SAFE (7233) or Text “START” to 88788

RAINN (National Sexual Assault Hotline) https://www.rainn.org/

Child USA The Think Tank for Child Protection https://childusa.org/

Alienation Industry https://www.alienationindustry.com/

National Resource Center of Domestic Violence https://www.nrcdv.org

National Network to End Domestic Violence https://nnedv.org

Operation Safe Escape https://safeescape.org

Crisis Text Line: Text 741741

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988

National Child Abuse Hotline: 1-800-422-4453

Safe Helpline, Sexual Assult: 1-877-995-5247

LGBTQ National Hotline: 1-888-843-4564

National Runaway Safeline: 1-800-786-2929

Resources outside the US

The Trauma and Mental Health Report resource page https://trauma.blog.yorku.ca/resources/

Victim Focus https://www.victimfocus.com/

Dr. Charlotte Proudman https://www.charlotteproudman.com/

Awareness Books

Lundy Bancroft - Why Does He Do That

Lundy Bancroft - In Custody: A Carrie Green Novel (and many more)

Shannon Thomas - Healing from Hidden Abuse: A Journey Through the Stages of Recovery from Psychological Abuse

Evan Stark - Coercive Control: The Entrapment of Women in Personal Life

Evan Stark - Children of Corecive Control

Emma Katz - Coercive Control in Children’s and Mother’s Lives

Rachel Louise Snyder - No Visible Bruises

Jane Monckton Smith - In Control: Dangerous Relationships and How they End in Murder

K.L. Randis - Spilled Milk

Investigative Journalists, Forensic Psychiatrists, Research Psychologists

Grant Wyeth - Investigative Journalist- His articles can be found on https://substack.com/

  • The articles I recommend reading first:

  • The Facilitating System of the Family Court

  • Domestic Violence_ A Hobbesian Dilemma

  • The Best Interests Of The Abuser

Dr. Bandy X. Lee - Her articles can be found on https://medium.com/

  • The articles I recommend reading first:

  • Beware Family Court Doublethink and Newspeak

  • The Hidden ‘Genocide’ of the Family Courts

Dr. Emma Katz - Her articles can be found on https://substack.com/

  • The articles I recommend reading first:

  • Explaining Coercive Control to People who Don't Quite Get It_ A Series 1, 2, & 3

  • Just in from Family Court_ Father NEGLECTED His Children Because He Coercively Controlled their Mother

  • Domestically Violent Men Describe the Benefits of Abusing Women and Children

  • Childrens Thoughts About Their Domestic Violence Perpetrating Fathers

  • Family Courts: Highlighting the Voices of Abused Mothers_ A Series 1 & 2

  • Why Domestic Violence and Abuse Victims and Survivors Deserve All Our Respect and Support

I also have a list of healing books recommended as selfwork in session.

I will use my expertise to assist you to develop awareness. I will educate, recommend, and sometimes advocate solutions regarding your individual situation from awareness to recovery to thriving.

This type of consulting is not for everyone. Please book a discovery session to learn more about my consulting services.